Taming Papa
Taming Papa
Mélie gets the impression that the more the phone rings, the quieter her mother becomes, and she knows it’s because she has something to tell her. Something so hard to say that she can’t find the words.
Until now.
Mélie sits at the kitchen table and waits. Sofia sits down, too, but she doesn’t say anything for a long time, and Mélie no longer knows whether she wants to hear what her mother has to say.
“Your father will be joining us soon.”
Mélie’s eyes open wide. Her father? She didn’t even know she had one.
Suddenly she has a million questions, but now she’s the one who can’t find the words. She thinks about it. A million questions, but she only dares let one cross her lips.
“Where is he going to sit? We only have two chairs.”
It’s a tiny, unimportant question, but when Mélie comes home from school the next day, there’s a third chair in the kitchen.
But still no one sitting in it.
The summer after grade five is a difficult one for Mélie. Her father, Sami, about whom she knew nothing before now, has been released from a political prison in his home country and now joins Mélie and her mother in their small Montreal apartment. Sami does not know French—nor does Mélie understand her parents’ home language—making communication especially difficult for everyone. Complicating matters, Sami is not adjusting well to life outside of prison (he watches television and naps most of the day), and Mélie has been asked to look after him while her mother is at work. On a trip to the park, Mélie reconnects with her grade three teacher, Monsieur Xavier, who has recently adopted an infant daughter, Mei-Li, and who is having some adjustment problems of his own.. Mélie agrees to babysit for the child, providing some respite for Xavier and his partner as well as an escape from her brooding father.
Goupil’s short novel, smoothly translated by Shelley Tanaka, offers middle grade readers a glimpse of two families dealing with difficult adjustments. Mélie knows she is expected to love her father, and she really tries, but his gruff exterior and refusal to leave the house, even in the heat, results in a relationship fraught with misunderstandings. Her attempts to broach the gap—purchasing him a two-way dictionary and making French flashcards for him—are both endearing and heartbreaking in their failure. Mei-Li’s dads provide Mélie with a sounding board for her frustrations and her fears that she does not have a “real” family. Including an engaging and sometimes comic subplot involving a stray kitten, Taming Papa is a satisfying and ultimately triumphant reminder that families come in all configurations.
Kay Weisman is a former youth services librarian at West Vancouver Memorial Library and the author of If You Want to Visit a Sea Garden.